One weekday afternoon, I was sitting in a Borders Café, trying to work, while some guy, probably in his earlier 20s, was practically shouting into a cell phone as he argued with someone—presumably his roommate—about a cable bill.
It’s funny how many sociological questions can arise from overhearing a conversation like that. For instance:
Do people feel shame anymore? Have people always been so inconsiderate? What does it say about society that we tolerate someone so brazenly disrupting others? Or that someone would feel comfortable broadcasting his petty financial issue to a café full of strangers? What are the social ramifications of this perfect storm of disrespect for self and disrespect for others? How does this rudeness affect our quality of life? How does the difficulty of finding quietude affect thought, discourse, and conversation?
How dependent are we on technology? Does technology fuel our impatience? What about the irony of racking up daytime cell phone minutes to argue over another communications bill?
How much money does a young person need to live on? Does teenagers’ high level of disposable income set them up to expect too high a lifestyle later on? What happens when they have to economize in order to eat, if they’ve never done it before? How do they manage their money? What do young people understand about money management? How do they learn it? From the same souce teaching them manners?